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accompanying and guiding you through the dying process with peace and presence
Dying is HARD work. It can be scary and isolating, perhaps causing us to confront our deepest fears. But you don't have to do this work alone. Whether you need practical guidance or emotional support I am here to help you face the uncertainty and reclaim death as a natural, honest part of life. You are, after all, LIVING up until the very moment you die. The work we do together will help you face your journey with honest awareness ensuring that you can make the most of the living you have yet to do.
hi friends, i'm mandee.
hi friends, i'm mandee.
Death doulas offer gentle, non-medical guidance and presence, supporting individuals and their loved ones with holistic, non-judgmental care as they navigate life’s closing chapters. At the heart of the role is a commitment to empowering each person to make choices true to themselves, embracing autonomy and authenticity in every step. Death is very much a part of your LIFE and there is much we can do to foster a death experience that resonates with the rest of your life.
Death education is a powerful part of our work, offering knowledge that can bring comfort and ease to those who may feel anxious or fearful about the end of life. By exploring what death entails—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—we help you gain a clearer understanding of the process. Learning about death can dissolve fear and help create a sense of peace, allowing people to face this transition with greater acceptance and understanding. Through open conversations and compassionate guidance, we foster a space where questions are welcomed, fears are softened, and each person can feel more prepared and empowered.
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This offering is for individuals who experience fear, anxiety, or uncertainty about death and dying at any stage of life. It provides a safe space to explore fear and grief, as well as tools for managing anxiety, and gentle guidance to help clients find peace. 5 Hours, 3 month term limit.
Fear of death Support
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This offering combines the elements of both the End of Life Planning and the End of Life Visits Offerings for a total of 20 hours. You can also mix and match from the a la carte offerings to create a plan that meets your specific needs. 6 month term limit.
Comprehensive Care
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Designed to bring companionship, gentle conversation, and a calm presence to those nearing the end of life. These visits are meant to provide a reassuring presence, assist with comforting rituals, and foster moments of peace and ease. 10 hours, 6 month term limit.
END OF LIFE Visits
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This offering focuses on preparing the essential documents, logistical arrangements, and practical details that ease decision-making and responsibilities for loved ones at the time of passing. 10 hours, 6 month term limit.
End of Life Planning
Services
Emotional Support
Fear/Anxiety support
Death meditation
Closure exercises
Forgiveness and reconciliation ritual
Creating person rituals
Legacy projects
Comfort and connection visits
Personalized comfort activities
Life-affirming practices
Guided reflection
Bedside vigil
End-of-Life Companionship
Advance directive/living will guidance
Funeral and body disposition planning
Digital legacy and online accounts
Final details and practical wishes document
Practical Preparedness
CHarged at Hourly Rate
$125
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Mix and match to create a support program that meets your specific needs.
Packages of 4, 8 or 12 hours can be purchased at discount
I know you're scared
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It’s okay to feel afraid. The end of life can bring a fear like no other—a fear that runs deep, that surfaces questions we may not know how to answer, or stirs emotions we didn’t expect or think we shouldn't feel. It’s common to feel as though the ground beneath you is shifting from moment to moment. Facing the end of life, whether for ourselves or someone we love, can feel like stepping into a vast unknown, one that challenges everything we thought we understood. Your fear of letting go, of facing the unknown, or of saying goodbye to someone you love you might feel paralyzing, or like it's too much and you don't want to do it. It’s completely natural to feel unprepared or unsure of how to navigate through this. This fear, this uncertainty, is a very human part of our experience on this planet, even if it feels impossible to face.
There’s no single way to process the emotions that come with facing mortality. Fear can feel overwhelming, even isolating, especially when we’re unsure how to express it, or when it feels like no one else can truly understand. Yet, allowing yourself to feel these fears—to give them space—can be part of making peace with what lies ahead. Whatever emotions come up, know that they are all welcome and valid. You don’t have to rush through them or try to make sense of them all at once. It’s okay to simply be present with what is, to sit with the unknown, and to recognize that this experience is as profound as it is difficult.
I am here to see you and hold you with understanding and care so you don't have to walk this path alone. Together, you and I can explore whatever arises without judgment. I’ll be here to help answer questions, address fears, and provide comforting tools so that, even amidst the unknown, you can find a sense of grounding and calm. Whether you seek understanding, quiet companionship, knowledge to soften the fear of the unknown or guidance in creating a meaningful farewell, we’ll take things at a pace that feels right, honoring your voice and wishes at every step. I am here to help you hold this journey with both tenderness and courage.
Facing the end of life, whether for ourselves or someone we love, can feel like stepping into a vast unknown, one that challenges everything we thought we understood. Your fear of letting go, of facing the unknown, or of saying goodbye to someone you love you might feel paralyzing, or like it's too much and you don't want to do it. It’s completely natural to feel unprepared or unsure of how to navigate through this. This fear, this uncertainty, is a very human part of our experience on this planet, even if it feels impossible to face.
There’s no single way to process the emotions that come with facing mortality. Fear can feel overwhelming, even isolating, especially when we’re unsure how to express it, or when it feels like no one else can truly understand. Yet, allowing yourself to feel these fears—to give them space—can be part of making peace with what lies ahead. Whatever emotions come up, know that they are all welcome and valid. You don’t have to rush through them or try to make sense of them all at once. It’s okay to simply be present with what is, to sit with the unknown, and to recognize that this experience is as profound as it is difficult.
I am here to see you and hold you with understanding and care so you don't have to walk this path alone. Together, you and I can explore whatever arises without judgment. I’ll be here to help answer questions, address fears, and provide comforting tools so that, even amidst the unknown, you can find a sense of grounding and calm. Whether you seek understanding, quiet companionship, knowledge to soften the fear of the unknown or guidance in creating a meaningful farewell, we’ll take things at a pace that feels right, honoring your voice and wishes at every step. I am here to help you hold this journey with both tenderness and courage.
It’s okay to feel afraid. The end of life can bring a fear like no other—a fear that runs deep, that surfaces questions we may not know how to answer, or stirs emotions we didn’t expect or think we shouldn't feel. It’s common to feel as though the ground beneath you is shifting from moment to moment.